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I recently started cutting. Not to die, but to escape. The cuts take my mind off of the internal pain I feel. I am not cutting deep enough to scar either. I don't know what to do. I don't know how to stop. I'm 13 years old and only my best friend knows.

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Hi. I am 13 turning 14 next month. I understand that you may be going through a hard time. Maybe you don't know what that is, why you are depressed which IS the reason you are doing this. Try to search deep and figure out what it is whether it be one or multiple things that are bothering you. That is the first step. Second, decide what you want. Say you have been abused for example, you want this to stop. Think of ways you can make this come to an end. Run through each scenario in your head. If it is a personal issue like abuse, talk to a counselor or any adult you can trust. If it is an inside situation in your heart, find a way to fix it, any way you could. Cutting is not the solution! Forget the scars, you are hurting yourself by causing the guilty feeling. To stop the cutting, first do it mentally. Do not cut yourself for real. In your head, feel the release you get from it. THIS IS A START!!! Until you find a new release, do this...but not permanently! Who knows, it could be anything from sports to knitting to making videos on youtube. Occupy your mind-no cutting!

I know things have caused you to the breaking point, you say 'to escape' like your life is a hell on earth. No matter, remember you have a reason to be here and that you can give so much to the world. DON'T LOWER YOURSELF IN YOUR MIND AND OTHERS BY CAUSING THE GUILT YOU GET FROM "RELIEVING YOURSELF".

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I was that way too! If you tell someone, chances are they might send you to a therapyst every week or once a month, where you will have to talk about it. I dont think talking helps, i think it just brings it to reality more. Do you know what you wanna be when youre older?.. If so take that and find an activity that relates to that. For example:

I WANNA BE A POLICE OFFICER... so I am in a you police program... And get to do many things like vollunteer for crowd control at the Super Bowl. Find something that relates to your furure! It should help.

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I started at 13, but didn't truly stop until I was 17. If I had received treatment at an earlier time I would have save myself from years filled with shame and addiction.

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Cutting in any way will leave a scar, it doesn't matter how deep it is. You need to see your school counselor or tell a trusted adult, anyone that can help.

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I know how you feel. Although I don't personally cut my self, my Life is definitely hard for me right now. The best way for you to stop is to get your counselor or a therapist to help you.

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thts hw i am but im 14 i recently stopped cuz my cuts r taking up my whole arm n my scars are still visible .... its addicting n ii hav no other wayy to relieve stress from a hard day at school n i love seeing blood

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Talk to your school counselor or ask your friends about it, they may have similar problems

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this is how i am,

im talking to my counselor, and i use foundation to cover it up, and no one knows its stupid -.-

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